In Hip Hop Culture, if you’re not selling sex as a woman, navigating Queen Bey’s internet is a rough ride. Last week, Angela Simmons posted some stunning photos for her collaboration with Pinky Cole’s Slutty Vegan restaurant chain. Among the comments, one read, “She has the sex appeal of a cactus.” Seriously? This got me thinking: Why do wholesome women face such criticism within “the culture?”
Although I believe in defining my own value, I still shake my head when I see it unfold in real time. We watched Ciara get repeatedly dragged online for valuing herself enough to leave a toxic relationship and move on with a good man. We also saw that good man labeled a “simp” for loving her and her child. Podcasts feature men tearing down women in the culture for behaviors they deem “low value.” Yet, if you scroll through their social media, you’ll find them liking every rap artist, reality star, video vixen, and influencer who sells sex. Algorithms don’t lie.
In a genre that celebrates power, wealth, and ostentation, women in hip hop often find themselves forced into hypersexualized roles. Female artists who own their sexuality are celebrated, leaving little room for those who prefer a more modest approach. Wholesome or conservative women may find themselves marginalized or criticized.
This struggle reflects a larger societal issue where a woman’s worth is often tied to her looks and sex appeal. In hip hop, where visuals are paramount, this mindset is amplified. Women who don’t conform to the sex symbol trope must work even harder to prove their worth, facing brutal backlash that overshadows their talents and contributions.
Moreover, hip hop’s young and impressionable audience perpetuates these stereotypes. Fans constantly see highly sexualized female icons in music videos, fostering unrealistic expectations and making it tougher for women who don’t fit this mold to succeed. While there are exceptions, the pressure to hypersexualize remains a significant hurdle.
In summary, hip hop’s obsession with sexual appeal makes it challenging for women who prefer a wholesome image. We need to broaden our perspectives and respect diverse representations of womanhood in the culture. Through ongoing conversations and conscious efforts, hip hop can evolve to embrace all facets of female identity, allowing every woman to shine in her unique way.
She is a graduate of Carolina School of Broadcasting, in Charlotte North Carolina. Babydoll colloquially delivers compelling content and information. She connects with listeners not only over the airwaves, but also through social media platforms; as well as in their communities where it counts most.